Dear Powerful Woman,
All men CRAVE a relationship with a POWERFUL WOMAN. Do you doubt this - even a little bit? If so, it's probably because you've been in relationships with men, who couldn't seem to handle your power. They either tried to "put you in your place," or they reacted like a child or teenager, or they put their tails between their legs and and lost their spine. WHERE ARE THE "REAL MEN"? Your disappointing, painful experiences may have led you to form protective beliefs about men, consciously or sub-consciously. Then, society echoes the beliefs that "men are jerks" or "men are fools" by depicting men in film and TV sitcoms as spineless, mindless animals. While it could be said that many men today have lost their honor, courage and depth, I can tell you that there is nothing a man would rather be than a noble man, who lives by his own code of Honor. The "Real Men" that women often say are so rare to find are actually EVERYWHERE. Inside every man who acts like a jerk or a wimp is a real man, a noble man, a powerful man, desperately seeking to LIVE COURAGEOUSLY by a code of honor. There's a REAL MAN, a POWERFUL MAN, in YOUR MAN. And odds are he's NEVER had the experience of being with a woman who DEEPLY SEES AND HONORS HIM. So, consider this Maybe... just maybe... men who have not responded powerfully to *your* power, are reacting to the way you express your power. Maybe... just maybe... you are in relationship with a man who is powerful beyond measure, who is desperately WANTING YOU to express your fullest power in the world. POWERFUL WOMEN have the art of expressing the fullness of their power with men in ways that: - Call him to rise up and instantly BE the man you know he can be, - Eliminate the romance-killing Power Struggle, and allow you both to be fully expressed and powerful beyond measure, - Not only keep ROMANCE ALIVE, but take it deeper and deeper in ways you've only dreamed of, - Have him deeply respect and trust you for your wisdom, perspective and intuition, - Inspire him to connect with his emotions and open up and express them intimately with you, no matter how hard it is for him to do, - Inspire his fierce loyalty and deepest devotion, - Command his full attention and presence, - Inspire him to defend your honor, your safety, and your well-being - in the face of anything. Have you ever experienced this? You're in a relationship with a man, who INSPIRES you, and then... He DISRESPECTS you or DISAPPOINTS you. He acts as if he's not the powerful man you believe him to be? How do you BE POWERFUL with him? Many women today fall into one of TWO TRAPS: 1) BECOME HIS MOTHER He's acting irresponsible or disrespectful, and so someone's got to take control and be responsible! Might as well be you. You find yourself treating him like a child or rebellious teenager. You boss him around, tell him what to do, criticize him, and "nag" him just like his mother used to. Then, what does he do? Acts like more of a child or teenager, of course! He resists you and resents you. At this point the romance is dead. But at least you're in control. You feel more powerful than being his victim. Still, you know this is a compromise, and you don't want this kind of relationship. You want him to be a MAN. You want to be inspired by him. You want him to love, honor, respect and cherish you. But, with you as his mother, he's in a NO-WIN SITUATION. The best he can do is comply with you. And then when he finally does what you want, you're still resentful, because you can't trust that he's doing it because he really cares. You don't want him to choose you and honor you out of guilt, fear or shame. You want to KNOW he's FREELY CHOOSING YOU. Of course, another option is to... 2) BECOME HIS DAUGHTER Not wanting to be his mother or boss him around, many women play the daughter role. They whine, wimper, throw a tantrum, play the victim role. Then what does he do? He treats you like a child. He acts like the father, who's got to deal with a teenage daughter who isn't owning her power as a woman. He talks down to you, becomes resentful and disrespectful. And, again, the heart-opening romance is dead. But... you can still get what you want, if you're really good at playing the victim, and if he's willing to play along. There's a third way, a POWERFUL way to express yourself with him, and BE THE POWERFUL WOMAN HE'S DREAMED OF AND HOPED FOR ALL HIS LIFE.. (invitation to join Honoring My Man Club deleted - biernes_atrece) DEEP INTIMACY and ENDLESS PASSION is awaiting you right now. Standing with you and for you, Michael Skye Honoring My Man VisionForce, 4202 Spicewood Springs Rd #201, Austin, TX USA
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my take? hundred percent true.
i get irritated and annoyed by women characters portrayed in movies
as weaklings and victims who are just there to "fill in" the needs of the leading man,
stereotyping the actor as "man enough" or "the man".
i'm really turned on by women who can be women even without a man. strong-willed and decisive.
i would recommend watching "Iron Jawed Angels", "G.I. Jane" and "Courage Under Fire" among others.
i'm awed by actresses like hilary swank,
jodie foster (but of course she's a lesbian..why not?),
milla jovovich
jessica biel (muscledly sexy! i like her best in blade 3),
jada pinkett smith (the matrix 2 & 3),
sigourney weaver (aliens),
keira knightly (king arthur, pirates of the carribean -havent seen the Duchess & Silk yet)
charlize theron
jenifer garner
sharon stone
rosario dawson
devon aoki etc. women i never liked are with big boobs (most probably fake) with small brains.same goes for men with big muscles (steroids?) and small..... go figure! ___________ biernes_atrece objectivist www.biernes.multiply.com
